Yes, it is actually a technique some will use in order to get clients and drain out someone’s pocket book.
These people will search out people who are vunerable because they have a need, or feel out of control in an area of their life. They will say and do whatever it takes to fill that void, that feeling of being out of control, or promise that through them and what they do… they can change it all and get what they want. Pretty much they will become ” what you need” , as long as you keep paying them. They may never actually help you, or bring any resolve into that area of your life. Why would they? They don’t truly want to give you the answers, or the solutions because if you no longer ” needed” them, they wouldn’t be ” needed” anymore and with your resolving of your situation, also goes any money you may be able to give them. So, their goal isn’t to help or bring you to resolve but to work on a need you already have and make it larger, so you form a dependence on them. Once they have that, they have your money and that is really the only goal they have.
One thing to remember when seeking out a psychic is what your initial goal is… isn’t it to find “truth” find solutions? Remember that and don’t let it get lost on your journey. If a psychic isn’t offering you truth, and resolve and solutions aren’t coming, it’s time to leave. What are you paying them for exactly if what your initial goal isn’t being meant? To be lead around with lies, manipulation and never ending ” insights” that aren’t helpful or leading you to the quickest resolve possible, you are not being good to yourself, or your soul/spirit/spiritual nature. You are in fact allowing a toxic energy in to diease those parts of you with their greed and their desires for money only.
A good way to look at this is to really examine who your psychic is… are they becoming ” bigger” than you in your life? Is your need for them outweighting you? In other words are you putting more stock in their words, and in their being in your life then you are on your own instincts and your own thoughts or insights? If you said yes, this is someone trying not to help you but to have you become dependent on them.
What you want in a psychic is someone who will help you and helping means:
Putting you first
Giving you the truth, even if it’s a hard truth ( in a compassionate, understanding and constuctive way)
Encouraging and nurturing your independence, your strengths your abilities to do for yourself things that will bring about the goals you desire
Someone who leads you to answers quickly, and resolve ( you should not be or feel baited into more sessions, longer sessions -when paying by minutes, only given answers or solutions if you spend so much or keep coming back)
Someone who is there when you need them and gives you what you desire … in that session or reading, if you go into a reading, session whatever it should: 1. Answer your specific questions ( then) 2. Give advice ( then) and advice ” rarely” leads to more sessions not Always leads to more, 3. You leave feeling as if you gained something, not lost something or got nothing at all 4. Solutions, plans, a direction.. clearly mapped for you, you shouldn’t be confused, or without clarity, if you are… that wasn’t a good psychic.
5. Most of all the psychic is willing to work with you again, maybe hoping if you need more you will think of them but isn’t PUSHING it. They are ready and able to let you go … better for the experience with them. They aren’t working you or using you or manipulating you.
Signs you are becoming or are dependent.
1. Spending more money then you can afford
2. Seeking out psychics ( asking more then 1 the same things over and over)
3. Afraid of making decisions on your own,or needing them in every decision you make
4. Sitting in wait ( not living your everyday life without worry) for the predictions to come true
5. Visitng or consulting more then one psychic in the same time frames
6. Running from psychic to psychic ( with sense of ugency within you)
It is like an addiction and you need to address it like one.
I will be adding ways to overcome this in upcoming posts.
These are some simple things to think about and remember.
If you have any questions, please ask me ( post it here) I will be glad to answer you the best I can.
Think someone may be doing this to you or someone else and want to discuss it, please do.
Has it happened to you? Share your experience, it will help others!
